This is honestly how I feel right now. I joined an online dating site for all the reasons that everyone seems to have joined. I don’t do the clubs anymore and when I go to a bar it’s usually with some married folks.
This past Friday I went on my very first date since joining this site. I will call him “JC”. So this guy has two kiddos. He told me that he had to temporarily move back into his parents house. Warning sign #1? I decided that I would give him a chance.
We met at a Mexican restaurant… but there was no parking so we decided to go across the street and grab a burger. Dinner was… interesting. This guy had NO FILTER!! Like none. He said everything that crossed his mind. From OMG you have a nice ass… to are we going back to your place. What a gentlemen right. I mean I honestly felt bad for the guy. I think he was really nervous. So anyway I decided to stick around and walk down to a bar that was a couple of doors down.
Once he relaxed he was much more talkative and we actually had some nice conversation. We ended the night and I went home. He called and asked when he could see me again. I thought it over, and the next day I thought about it some more. I sent him a text on Saturday telling him that I didn’t really feel a romantic connection but that I would like to hang out as friends if he was up for it.
Date number one. fail.