Other things that have gone on. I was laid off from work a couple of months ago. Things have been stretched a little thin but thankfully God has been very good to me and we have survived. Just last week I went for an interview and got the job. I am beside myself, this job is a blessing in more ways than one.
2013 was probably one of the craziest years that I have had. This year I was living with my sister and her family. Our divorce was finalized in March of this year. I moved into my own apartment. I lost my job. I hurt. I fell down and stayed down for a while. I cried a lot. I learned that things change, situations change and that people change. I dated some and quickly realized that it was too soon. I hoped and dreamed. I lost. I prayed and I understood why things did or didn’t happen the way that I planned. I complained and wallowed in a big pool of self pity…. almost all year long.
But in this year I also fought. I loved. I laughed a lot. I made new friends. I was blessed with another year with my son. Despite being unemployed God never ceased to provide for me and Judah. I prayed and God answered. I was blessed with a job that only God could have opened a door for. I got up. Learned to keep going. I hoped and I dreamed. I allowed myself to be vulnerable. I watched Judah grow, listened to him laugh and sometimes cry. I was the best mom I could be. I was reminded of just how much I am loved by my family and friends; reminded that despite feeling lonely at times that I am never alone.
This upcoming year I want to do things a little a lot different. I want to slow down and enjoy life, spend time with Judah, laugh more, spend more time with family and friends. Hopefully this year I can do more things with Judah. My plan is to do something different with him every month. Doesn’t have to be anything big. Maybe a museum or a new park, Sea World or Disney world or the beach. I want to take care of myself too. Physically, emotionally and spiritually.
I’m really excited about what 2014 will bring. Happy early New Year.
I just wanted to take a second to tell you just how much I love you. You are about 5 minutes away from your 3rd birthday. I can’t believe how time has just flown by. You got this been all week with me baby and I loved every minute. This pictures of you and I just being silly. You didn’t want me to put you down everytime I try to you calling your little legs around me your arms around my neck saying no mommy no down. I have no idea what I would do without you.
I miss you from the moment you walk out of the door. You’re such a smart little boy. You are kind and caring and really really silly. You love to goof off and make me laugh. just the other day you realize that you can roll your eyesand when you’re acting really silly your roll your eyes or wink at me. Especially when it’s time for bed, you’ll try anything in order for me not to put you to bed. Each night I come into your room and cover you up. I love seeing your little face curled up in a blanket.
You are growing way to fast. Please slow down love.
At 2:47 a.m. This little monster decided that he was going to come lay in my bed. It’s uncomfortable and he pushes me to the very edge of the bed, I get elbows and legs shoved into my ribs. But there’s nothing like kissing on his sleeping face.
For those of you that are still following, let me take a moment to say I’M BACK! It’s been several months since I last posted anything so let me start with the most recent info. Here is Judah. My baby is growing up :(. He turned two and a half this past November and I am a little sad that my little nugget is getting older.
The last time that I posted anything Judah and I had just moved into our apartment, Judah had a birthday, . To say that things were a little crazy is an understatement. It was quite an adjustment having to do things on my own. Being alone was very scary…at first. Slowly things fell into place and we have adjusted quite nicely.
My baby is talking a lot more. I absolutely ADORE when he calls me MOM, he sounds so grown up. I’m trying to potty train and it has not been easy. I just got him a potty watch so hopefully that will help both of us.
I attempted to have some what of a dating life, but that is proving to be a little more difficult than I initially thought. I’ve been praying about somethings and I just know that God will bring that person into my life when the time is right. Right? I’m realizing that there really isn’t a need to rush things. Enjoying Judah is my top priority at this point. I have some fun plans for us this coming year. He’s getting to that age that he is enjoying and understanding more. The plan is to keep this blog updated. For me and for Judah 🙂